Dressing isn't about looking good, it's about feeling more comfortable.

Clothing is not just about whether it looks good or not.

Do you often get stuck when you open your wardrobe?
It wasn't because I didn't have enough clothes, but because my brain started automatically running a scoring system.

Will wearing this make me look fat?
That outfit seems to be very trendy, but does it really look like me when I wear it?

Unbeknownst to many, dressing has become a form of censorship.
And we are often the ones who are the strictest with ourselves.

But in reality, clothing is simply an extension of the body.

It's not a tool to correct you, check you, or remind you "where you're not good enough".

Anxiety arises when dressing becomes something to be "watched."

Many girls are familiar with this situation:
I've seen countless fashion accounts, proportion formulas, and style classifications.
Do you know what it means to look slimmer, have longer legs, and exude elegance?

But the longer you wear it, the less certain you become about yourself.

Because when the starting point for choosing clothes becomes "what will others think of me",
The body will gradually become an object to be evaluated and corrected.

And this is precisely where appearance anxiety most often arises.

What is "subjective dressing"?

Personalized dressing does not mean not dressing up or giving up on beauty.
Instead, it takes back the power of choice.

A very simple conversion:
It's not "I'm not suited to wear this,"
Rather, it's "this outfit doesn't suit my current situation."

The former is denying oneself.
The latter is about respecting feelings.

The first step to subjective dressing is to observe less and feel more .
You may not be able to see your full picture at all times.
But you must know—
Is this clothing comfortable or uncomfortable to wear?

Body neutrality: No longer defining yourself by beauty or ugliness

When we adopt a neutral attitude towards the body
There's no rush to label it.

Arms aren't something you can be thin or not thin about.
It's for hugging, taking things, and doing what you want.
Legs are not for comparing proportions.
It will take you anywhere you want to go.

When choosing clothes, prioritize "ease of movement, suitable temperature, and feeling comfortable".
The choice becomes simpler.

You don't need to "transform," you're already on your way.

Too many stories tell us that
It seems that a girl's life only begins with a "glamorous transformation".

But real life changes
It rarely happens in front of a mirror.
More often, it happens in the places you've been, the choices you've made, and the connections you've made.

Clothing is not magic.
It's just one way you interact with the world.

Beauty can be a choice, but it shouldn't be a burden.

You can choose to dress up.
Because you enjoy combining, creating, and expressing yourself;
You can also choose not to dress up.
Because comfort and convenience are equally worthy of respect.

What matters is never what you wear.
Rather, it's about whether you understand—
This is for me, not for anyone else.

When dressing returns to oneself
The anxiety will naturally subside over time.